Why You Should Go to Your Reunion

Home / Why You Should Go to Your Reunion - September 29, 2015 , by mrjoeliec

Hey Peeps. So…. Why should you go to your reunion? Because you should… And because you all sucked me into doing this… I mean hell I went kicking and screaming to my 10 year reunion and next thing I know I invite 20 people to my apartment… But I get it… When you got me shouting about  a high school reunion, your first instinct may be to just ignore me. After all, adolescence is usually an awkward time that most people would rather forget rather than reminisce about. (Trust me I am very familiar with this.)  While many people will say that high school was the best time of their lives, this isn’t always true for everyone. Still, there are plenty of reasons why attending your high school reunion is a good idea.

To Reconnect With Old Friends – Remember the best friend that you talked to for hours every night on the telephone and swore you’d never grow apart from? Unless you’re one of the lucky few, chances are that you haven’t seen one another in years and may even have lost touch altogether. Few events offer the opportunity to reconnect with people that were once important to you like a high school reunion, and you may never see them again if you skip the event.

Because You’ve Changed Dramatically – If you’ve lost a ton of weight or were the ugly duckling that became a swan in college or later in life, there’s something very satisfying about showing up to your high school reunion to flaunt those changes. Poise and confidence often come with age, so you can navigate your reunion much more easily than the halls of your high school.

To Come to Terms With Aging – Seeing new fine lines and more gray hair isn’t easy to deal with for most people. When you arrive at your reunion and realize that everyone is getting older, it can make the experience feel less isolating and help you come to terms with the fact that aging is an inevitable part of life.

Because Laughing like a teenager is Therapeutic –Few events offer the opportunity to go back in time and laugh like a teenager.

To Network – Networking is so important in some fields that there are entire social websites built solely around the premise of helping people to network on a professional level. Attending your high school reunion can be a great experience, but it may also afford you some networking opportunities that you would otherwise miss out on.

To Reminisce – Some people suffer through high school, but there are also those that reveled in the experience. Looking back at your high school career and sharing a few laughs with the people that were by your side for all of those great times can be very rewarding.

To Show Your Spouse Where You Came From – Attending your high school reunion with your spouse is a great way to share a part of your formative years. You can tour your hometown, introduce old friends and share stories that you’d forgotten all about, helping you forge an even stronger bond.  Of course unless you are one of the luckiest people in the world and still married to your high school sweetheart (which is even more of a cause to celebrate with mutual friends)!

To Party Like It’s 1990… Or Something – When careers and kids come along, opportunities to let your hair down can be few and far between. Your high school reunion will give you the chance to dance the night away. Rather than sharing the dance floor with a crowd of college kids at a nightclub, you’ll be surrounded by people your own age rocking out to songs you haven’t heard in years.

To Satisfy Your Curiosity – If you’ve ever wondered where people ended up and what they have done with their lives this is your chance to find out.  Whether it is the motor head that constantly tinkered with his cool car or the nerd that always raised his hand to answer the teacher’s questions, it’s fun to see what became of them.

Because Wall Posts Aren’t Real Conversations – Seeing pictures and Facebook status updates from your old friends or even sending a few messages back and forth just isn’t the same as seeing them in the flesh and catching up. As hard as it may be to believe, some people don’t even maintain social networking accounts. If you haven’t seen your high school friends since graduation, there’s no better place to catch up than the spot where you all went your separate ways.

Facebook is not Real Life or for that matter: “Live.” – You can’t hear the infectious laugh of the classmate who sat behind you in geometry, see an ex-boyfriend’s smiling blue eyes, or hug your former locker partner on Facebook.

You are a MASH Alumni thus you are NOT Predictable and/or Ordinary – The “I didn’t like anyone then”, “I still talk to everyone I want to talk to”, and “everything there is to know about anyone is on Facebook” excuses are predictable and ordinary.  You are neither.

  • There are many reasons you can tell your self why you should not go. Like Maybe you feel you are not as successful as you should be. Even though your life didn’t follow the road map you had planned, you know deep down your path has been uniquely yours. Therefore, going to your reunion can be a confidence builder. Believe it or not, reunions actually don’t seem like strangers pointing fingers and judging from across the room. I know that was how it sometimes worked in high school, but we’ve all grown up. There is no popularity any more and everyone is on the same wavelength. Tommy who was class president, on the honor role, and loved by everyone has had to leap into the big bad world with the rest of us. That usually means starting at the bottom and working your way up. If you have the guts to show up to your class reunion and mingle with people other than your clique of friends, I promise you’ll be happier and more confident in the end. You’ll see that everyone is exactly as you are.So relax,  Be Calm, and attend your reunion!!!